17. Ten Principles Of Girdle Flirting
My last major post was a discussion of the potentially difficult process by which a man might persuade a woman he is involved with to wear a girdle. I would like now to contribute something of a more lighthearted nature: a guide to girdle flirting for a woman who has chosen to wear a girdle for a man who has professed an interest in her wearing them. This is based upon years of experience in a happy marriage between a girdle-wearing woman and a man with this particular erotic fascination. What I say here could probably be applied to a range of different items of apparel. I hope once again that it contributes to the happiness of some couples somewhere and I'd love to hear from anyone who tries these or has had them tried on them. Here goes:
1) Get him involved in the girdle decision. Pretend you're not just doing it to turn him on. Ask him which girdle, if you have more than one, might be more helpful with the particular dress or skirt you're planning to wear. Even try on a couple, if you're unsure. Even if you don't need his advice, pretend that you're looking to him for practical input.
2) In a situation in which you're comfortable, let your skirt ride up a bit and pretend not to notice. Let him think he's seeing something he's not supposed to see and that you don't mean to show him.
3) Pretend you need to re-fasten a garter and let him see you doing it. Say something sweet that acknowledges that this is part of the intimacy of marriage.
4) Pretend you're wearing it because you honestly think you look better in it. This will make him feel less self-conscious or guilty.
5) Pretend you're having trouble fastening a back garter when you're getting dressed. Ask for his assistance.
6) Mention your girdle in a humorous or flirty fashion. You can even complain about it (wearing it too long, it's too hot, etc.) as long as you don't sound as if you really hate it (if you do really hate it, don't wear it, the resentment isn't good for you or him).
7) When you're getting dressed in the morning, walk around or do something in your bra and girdle. Put them on under your bathrobe and have breakfast before you get dressed. Make sure he knows it.
8) Wear it from time to time under very casual clothing (so that he wouldn't expect it). Surprise him with it somehow.
9) If you're wearing a girdle under a short skirt, a tight skirt, or pants, ask him if it is showing or showing through. Pretend that you need his practical advice about this matter but don't believe a word he says.
10) Depending on what he would find most enjoyable either go girdle shopping with him or let him buy them for you. Tell him what you'd like or think you need.
Copyright 1995 by Suzanne. Used with permission of the author.
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Originally Posted April 20, 1997